About me:

30 years old Mistress from Copenhagen, Denmark Next tours:
Berlin until 30 November
Hamburg until 2 December
Copenhagen until 6 December

I am Mistress Black, an international Mistress originally from Spain, though I regularly tour cities such as London, Milan, Rome, Berlin, and Madrid.

My interest lies in BDSM, particularly on the psychological level, as I believe it forms the foundation before any physical practices. I prefer a submissive who genuinely enjoys their role and views torture or humiliation as a reward rather than a punishment. To me, this subtle distinction between Mistress and Dominatrix is crucial. While I embody aspects of both, I primarily identify as a Mistress. In my understanding, a Mistress is an exemplary figure, a mentor, a woman whom you view as a goddess and feel compelled to worship not just because she’s clad in latex with a threatening whip, but because the desire to worship her becomes intrinsic, something you’d do even if she were in pajamas. Positive reinforcement is key, not negative.

I firmly believe that BDSM can be therapeutic for both parties when practiced ethically and without prejudice, fostering complete self-acceptance. People from diverse backgrounds come to me, but I can generally categorize them into two groups: those driven by hate and those driven by love.

The former group seeks to fill a void, overcome fear, or mask a blockage, while the latter group seeks self-exploration and genuine understanding. I endeavor to redirect those in the former group, guiding them toward a journey of self-awareness where their experiences with me yield positivity. Their blocks, fears, or taboos should become pathways to self-love. And of course, I guide those in the latter group on their beautiful journey toward self-expansion.

Furthermore, my interest extends to the spiritual aspect of sexuality. I delved into tantra long before BDSM, and upon exploring the latter, I realized they share more common ground than I initially thought. I enjoy leading the submissive into a state of trance, acceptance, and surrender akin to deep meditative states.

While I emphasize the psychological aspect as foundational, I also engage in a wide array of physical practices, which I relish as personal fetishes. As an appreciator of elegance, I prefer to discuss these matters in private. I specialize in inducing adoration as a fundamental element, often centered around foot worship, feminization including sissy training and baptism, as well as clinical themes, among others.

I conduct an initial screening based on your presentation. I value elegance and proper manners. While I welcome novices, you must possess a basic understanding of how to address me. This is just a glimpse of what is required.

I speak English, Spanish, and Italian.

Telegram channel: @sayyesmistress
Telegram message: @sayyesmistressblack

During my tours, with a few exceptions, I do not have my own place to host. It is the submissive’s responsibility to provide the dungeon or hotel. Of course, I will bring all my equipment with me in a suitcase from Spain.

My favorite method of contact is Telegram, followed by WhatsApp, and finally phone calls (my least preferred option).